Tuesday, April 20, 2010

When the time is right

People always say there is a right time and a wrong time. That it's just the wrong time thye will wait it out till timing is better. When in reality they are letting their fears take hold of them. Fear for being hurt, fear for hurting someone they care about. Fear of being lonely or fear of causing another to be lonely. I believe that they are full of crap. They think that it makes it easier to wait it out but it only makes it harder.
When a man raises that hand to you it's hurting you more emotionaly than physically. The bruises will heal. It's a broken heart, a shattered dream, and losing yourself to become what someone else wnats you to be that takes forever to heal. Time is just an excuse used get out of it. Love isn't hurting the people you want to make them stay. Love is trusting that you loving them is enough to get the to want to stay.
Nothing hurts more than loosing who you are for another because if something happens to the relationship then you are on your own still confused about who you are, and what you want to do with your life.

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